Join the revolution!

Today, we delve into a liberating conversation about the transformative journey of embracing one's dominant energy while simultaneously confronting the internal and societal pressures that often hold us back. This journey, I like to call ‘The Good Girl Resistance,' highlights the importance of self-awareness and grounding in self-love to truly claim and embody our personal power….

Exploring Dominant Expression…

What does it mean to embrace your dominant persona? How does this enrich your life, far beyond the dungeon walls or societal expectations? In the following paragraphs I delve into some of the elements explored in my Dominatrix Training….

Interview with a switch…

What do you get when you combine a switch and a dominatrix? Elle Voss and I talk sensual sadism, leading and being led, and Helmut Newton in one of her infamously delicious interviews…

The Latin word "liberatrix" - meaning "she that releases" - offers a powerful framework for the personal journey of expansion, liberation and transformation.

I used to be so afraid of my own power, of my authentic expression. The world had taught me it that wasn't safe to stand in it, to own it, to embody it.....

An ode to my love, the corset…

The very first time I cinched, squeezed and hiked my waist into the deliciously cruel, steel boned embrace of a corset is forever etched into my mind like the sweet memory of a lovers first kiss…

I can still feel the surges of heat and excitement flushing through my body as it constrictive yet delicate hands enveloped my waist…

A LITTLE INTRODUCTION TO MY WORLD OF POETRY, REIMAGINING THE LANDSCAPE OF BDSM

Fuel to the fire

His anticipation my fuel

Hidden between realms of chaos and swirling crowds

Lays a secret world where dark lovers can be found

Stirring cauldrons of dark desire, mixing truth and passion

Conjuring worlds of pleasure, only ever imagined…

An abnormally sunny day in Berlin…

As I entered through the museum doors I was pondering the realm of vulnerability, of feeling deeply “exposed” in ones power and yet also paradoxically disconnected from it. It was at this moment that I was met by the most striking image, above the grand staircase of the Museum of Photography, displayed in breathtakingly large format, Helmut Newtons ‘Big Nudes’ collection….

Exploring vulnerability in Dominance….

Showing vulnerability will always be viewed as a strength in my mind, and this applies to all areas of life, including the Domme space. Submissives offer up such a raw and beautiful gift of vulnerability when committing to service and sub space, to offer the same wholeness in return is elemental to creating a balance and exchange.

There are many different elements and drivers that can lead one to explore the beautiful world of bdsm and to visit a Dominatrix. 

For some of us it is innate desire or perhaps even a need, that has been with us for as long as we can remember, like a hypotonic whisper that transmutes into the most powerful poetry once we are finally able to find a space to truly hear the words.